Check frequently asked questions about Online Dating

Open Question: Is my friendship over?

I've been talking to this girl from Idaho for about 2 1/2 years now and we became really good friends. I talked with her about anything we wanted to, from tv shows to how we like it in bed! I would talk with her online, text messages, phone calls, I'd send her gifts. It was a great friendship. She used to go out with my best pal but they broke up and I asked him if I could date her and he said he was chilly with it. So we had said we loved each other as friends before but I asked her "how do you feel about being more than friends?" she said what did I mean? I told her about how I cared for her, how when I saw her I wished we were more, I just told her how I feel. She thought about it and told me "You are one of the best friends I have, but I'm not sure I share the same feelings as you have. I thought about us but I never thought about it happening. Maybe we should keep being friends for now and maybe in the future it might work." Well that was 2 months ago and we kept talking for a while but now the last time I heard from her was 2 weeks ago. Have I gone and ruined my friendship with her? Looking back I realize I really don't look us together cause now I think of her as more of a sister pal than girlfriend.

27 Aug 2008, 11:13 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: What does it mean when a girl talks to you about other guys?

She messaged me online last night and was saying she was really upset cuz she was gonna visit this guy in college but he didnt want ther to arrive and then she was like o by the way...so and so asked me out..akwardd, and i was like haha say yes? and she was like yeah, i don't like him or anything but hes nice and everything.... And me and her came close to dating in the past, why is she telling me every this?

28 Aug 2008, 6:13 am | click here for answers

Open Question: how far along am i im confused!!??

Okay my due date is feb 22 so my doctor says im 14.3 weeks pregnant but every pregnancy calculator i use online says im 15 weeks. which is it. more importantly my doctor says im not 4 months yet she says im 3 1/2 but online it says that month 4 starts at week 13 so how many months am i AND WHAT TRIMESTER AM I IN???? i am so confused by every this.

28 Aug 2008, 1:35 am | click here for answers

Resolved Question: never had a girlfriend aged 22!! can anyone help me out??? :-( ?

'm currently 22 and never had a girlfriend of any sort before and i'm scared it won't change for ages! :-/ i know i'd be good for a girl and be sweet with her and look after her ive just had no luck at every getting anywhere! girls just don't seem to want me and always go for some other guy :-( ive tried online, work, through friends, speed dating, festivals, clubs outside work, bars and nightclubs but still not found anyone who is right for me! every ive found are girls who blank me and ignore before ive even talked to them, and then they receive off with someone else and i seem to receive nothing! ive had a few dates so far but nothing came of them. having said that, i got dates so i must have done something right then! i'm not a bad looker (ive been told!) and ive got loads of mates but none of them know anyone they can set me up with. ive really tried to improve my confidence and be glad with myself, and this does show alot more now (people think so and i find it easier talking to everyone these days!) but still i seem to receive no where! i met and talked to loads of girls at a festival recently and yet i didn't seem to be doing anything right... more than anything though, i'm scared this will either never happen and i'll miss out, or if it finally does, my lack or sexual and romantic experience will make me useless to her. i look stuff in the media about things that guys my age should know, and u feel like a kid as i don't know them! does anyone know how i could help myself? will i ever meet my special someone? every my mates are finding theirs now! :-(

27 Aug 2008, 8:29 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: 10 points for best answer. [=/]?

Okay, well I'm 15, and my bf is 17. Before you go saying "You're young. They're plenty of guys out there, etc", just read please.. So We've only been dating 3 months. I've known him for a year, but we've always acted like bf and gf anyway. But now..it feels like the only time he "likes" me..is when we're together outside of school. He hardly hugs me at school anymore. And chatting online is slow these days.. But the problem is i'm soo glad with him at the times when we're together. when he actually TREATS me like his gf. He's usually one to tell me what he's feeling, but hasnt mentioned anything about having 'doubts' or anything. idk what to do. i cant break up with him. i like him way too much. but i'm rarely satisfied or glad except for when we chill outside of school. so what is your advice? does it look like he's lost interest? =/ i mean..i think he treated me more like a gf at school and every before we went out... i'm probably going to tell him how i feel though..i'm just scared he'll think either i'm massivly clingy (which i'm not) or i'm wanting to break up (which i dont) so sorry for every the writing..but i could really use the opinions of others.

27 Aug 2008, 3:30 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: Is this cheating? or am I being irrational about his "friends" online that are girls...?

I'll try and sum it up as much as I can... My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years. He's an awesome boyfriend but It's sort of like he has 2 lives. 1. is with me and in the real world and the other..number 2. is this whole other person online. Before we started dating my boyfriend looked for potential girlfriends online and started flirting with tons of lady through yahoo, msn, aim, google mail and any other website you could possibly think of. Well, when we got together he was still flirting and talking to every these lady online still and they became "just friends" Well, I know these girls still like him and I think that my bf flirts a lot with them back..............and I'm starting to believe that it much more than just flirting. I think he is emotionally cheating on me. He said that he has stayed faithful but I don't believe him. He is very secretive online and I have found messages from these girls online from before we got together saying how much they like him. Well, at first I thought it was alright if I let them talk occasionally but then he got their numbers. At first it was just talking now and then, but now they are texting, talking online, sending each other emails and now I think that they are using webcam. I can't take it anymore. I told him how much it hurt me that he was talking to them and I asked him to cease but he wont. He said that I'm just trying to take his friends away from him... I feel that their conversations have gotten too personal and I am very uncomfortable with them talking but he wont end the contact with them. I snooped through his text's the other day and he had a message from one of his "friends" telling him about her new hair clip. and he sent her back a message saying "ooh, can I look later?" It makes me wonder what else they do online that I don't know about...and his excuse for the reason he left my home early (the day he got that message) was he had to do laundry. It would be understandable if I knew he wasn't lying and he was just leaving my home to go look her new haircut online. These girls know I exist. Yet, they still text him saying "Hello Darling" and....I can't determine whether this is every cheating or not. He's so secretive about it and I don't want to break up but...I don't know if I can do this anymore. Am I just being too jealous and worrying too much about him talking to other girls online that he says are just friends (but they flirt) or...Is this an okay situation where I should worry about him talking to every these girls online?

27 Aug 2008, 2:00 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: IDK WHAT TO DO? =/? [10 pts]?

27 Aug 2008, 3:17 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: Dating Simulation For Girls!!?

I want to create a dating sim for girls. There is hardly any dating sims for girls out there. Online on the computer. So I'm just wondering how to make those animations, and program for it.

28 Aug 2008, 10:56 am | click here for answers

Open Question: Called Me Another Woman's Name...?

Every since I have been with my bf we've had a lot of obstacles to overcome including racial difference and age. However, there is this one third party issue that seems to be sticking around and this is a lady who he says he never dated but was simply associates with.Yet, when we went on vacation the concierge called me her name, his friends often inquire about her, and her name is listed below his address in the online white pages. Despite every of this he swears nothing ever happened. What should I do? I would like to ask her.

27 Aug 2008, 11:48 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: I met my boyfriend online, on a dating website, now people make fun of me and give me crap for it? ?

What should I do? I am glad with him, but it makes me upset?

27 Aug 2008, 8:59 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: Is this an "okay" picture? Should I use it for online dating?

Keep in mind that I am 35 (and I don't look that old) so don't be like, you look old! You can check out my other pics. on Flickr and look if there is another one I should use (and not my puppies or horses, lol!) instead! THANKS! And be nice! I know that I'm not gorgeous but I know that I'm not ugly! I'm not looking for a critique, I know my faults after 35 years. Have a great day! http://flickr.com/photos/29556620@N07/2806601914/

28 Aug 2008, 12:39 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: what to do about his erection while making out?

I have been going out with a guy I physically met a few weeks ago. (we actually met online around 6 months ago). We had out third date the other day and we got into a passionate kiss in his car. I then saw that he had an erection. I did not do anything since I dont feel ready to snooze with him yet. What do u think I should do if it happenes again, may be say something to him which is not embarassing and may be giggle about it even Plz help

27 Aug 2008, 9:37 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: What does this mean?

My boyfriend sent me a text today saying "hey toots, when's class?" and I replied saying "I just got out, going home". I randomly sent an email saying "I adore you!" He texted me saying "hey..that was a different num..hopefully this is the same mellisa! too bad i couldn't catch u online. i really miss u today..loue u." He spelled my name wrong and he never spells like this. What did he mean about the "different num" thing? Was it a typo....what was he trying to say? Then he texted me saying something about taking me on a date friday. I did...he's in class and not responding. I'll ask him tonight, I just want to know what it means now.

27 Aug 2008, 2:40 pm | click here for answers

Resolved Question: Don't you just find men so difficult? Women only!?

I find them annoying. Always having to answer the same freaken answer over and over again, and no matter how many times you answer their question putting it into detail, they still ask it and feel confused. Seriously they steer me crazy. I met a guy online who was really interesting, we exchanged pictures, I thought he was quite handsome, but then he started doubting me and being rude, forcing and pressuring me into telling him what I thought and just because I wasn't online for one day (which I told him why) he was upset and I found myself looking at tons of emails from him asking me tons of questions, like am I fake telling me I HAVE to prove it to him. Therefore I said you know what, I don't want to deal with this, I want to be friends, he then says it's because of the picture and when I said no he said it again and again, and then got mad cause I said I don't talk about sex with friends, and kept making me feel as if I had to feel sympathy for him and date him, but since I refused, he ignores me. Men are SO difficult and seriously I'm starting to look down at them and look that being single forever is the best solution to not having to deal with their annoyance. Not once have a met a man whose understanding, and is smart with his thinking or doing. Men always jump to conclusions, doubt you, and then ignore you. Bleh. Stupid. I'm not saying women aren't like this, but the majority are men. Just wondering, if anyone else goes through this pathetic annoyance? -Be mature with your answer, I don't want to deal with lame answers- I'm not a child/teen nor in a relationship, so don't give advice because I'm not asking for it. I'm just wondering if anyone else goes through it.

28 Aug 2008, 6:21 am | click here for answers

Open Question: over protective parents?

in advance thank you for your help. Ive been dating this girl for about 6 months now were both 16 years old. her parents have hated me from the start. i haven't given them a reason to hate me. they told me that i wasn't good enough for their daughter and she wasn't to look or talk to me anymore...that shes not gonna toss her life away. obviously they told her to break up with me months ago..they have threatened to move..they have threatened to receive restraining orders on me. they have threatened to send her off. told her shes not getting a car or her license. isn't allowed to receive a job..cant go anywhere.look anybody.receive online or on the phone..i adore this girl.she loves me. were not giving up. her parents recently told her that if she doesn't break up with me that they are taking her out of the school were in.. (the only way i have to look her) they told her that they have her transcripts and every it takes is, i think they said 1000 dollars( seems a bit unrealistic to me) and a signature then shes gone..and they don't have to worry about us anymore..Ive tried talking to her parents. they aren't willing. im wondering..maybe there still bluffing..she says they seem serious this time..a lot of yelling

27 Aug 2008, 7:04 pm | click here for answers

Resolved Question: Did you know they had an online dating service for married people who would like to cheat?

and on a scale from 1-10 how wrong do you think it is? OMG BK, that would kill me... how silly is that?!?!?!?!

27 Aug 2008, 5:48 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: I don't get him!!! GUYS, help!?

It was a mutual breakup and we even talked on the phone last week. We agreed to be good friends and it has been 3 weeks since we broke up. We were friends in the beginning, dated a bit over a year and were officially together for a bit over 4 months. About a week after we broke up, I had asked my ex if he still had feelings for me and he said he only liked me as a pal, so I thought he had moved on and was fine. One of his close friends talked to me online for the first time and he didn't know that we had broken up, which I thought was really weird. Even when we were going out, we had talked about how we will remain as good friends if things didn't work out. What is going on with him? Is it possible that he still has feelings for me?

27 Aug 2008, 3:03 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: Should I ask her out on a date again?

About 2 months ago, I asked this girl that I like very much out on a date sometime during the summer. She accepted, but said she was only free during August because of a vacation she was going on in July, but would go out with me when she returned. She has long since returned, but we haven't talked to each other (in person, online, or on the phone) at every this summer until we met at a pal's party last week, and we've never got the chance to go out on this date as of yet. Seeing as how we only have one week of summer left because we both start college next week, we'll both be going to different colleges (luckily within the same city), however there is a distinct possibility that we may no longer receive the chance look each other again, should I ask her out on this date again? How should I go about asking her? Your help is greatly appreciated!

27 Aug 2008, 5:13 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: I have a couple of questions regarding my sweet sixteen. Advice please?

I have talked to my parents, and they have agreed to let me have a nice sweet sixteen. I haven't had a birthday party in a couple years (nor do I plan to, other than this), I didn't have a bat mitzfah party, and so I they feel OK about letting me do this. I've kinda known what I want for this party for a while, but I just have a couple of questions as to what would work best/be the most appropriate. I have always loved Phantom of the Opera, and really want my SS to be like the Masquerade scene. I'd adore to have everyone in masks, or even costumes if they so pick. At the same time, I don't want people coming in costumes like those stupid $5 "beer keg" costumes you can buy online. Would it be OK if on the invitations I said, "Masks are a must, costumes are encouraged but optional. Please tell me your costume plans when you RSVP." Because it's nice of Phantom of the Opera themed, I'd really adore to go as Christine Daae. I want to enter as Christine after her Think of Me transformation - white ball gown, tiny crystals in my hair - but with the addition of a white mask. My mom has agreed to help me make this dress http://img.sewingtoday.com/cat/10000/itm_img/B4918.jpg (the white one), but would something that fancy be out of place? Would it be better if I did a short dress? Like the green one on this http://img.sewingtoday.com/cat/40000/itm_img/M5001.jpg but in white? The final question is regarding the date of the party. My actual birthday is July 4, so it's very rare that any of my friends are around. I have two potential alternative dates and I'm not sure which would be better. I could either have it in October (around Halloween, 3 months after my actual birthday) or in February (around Mardi Gras and my half birthday). Is it more appropriate to have it closer to my actual birthday, closer to a real age land-mark, or does it not matter? If it doesn't matter, which would you pick? If I've left out any details, please let me know. I appreciate any input you'd like to give me.

27 Aug 2008, 12:09 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: Online Dating: Why Do Time Wasters Subscribe to Online Dating Sites?

After emailing back and forth for about a month, I told someone that I would not be writing emails anymore, but was very polite, the person responded that he did not think that we were supposed to be doing anything but passing the time on this online site. I was surprised as my requirements for what I want are outlined on my profile. Why do people like this subscribe to online dating sites and waste people's time? What do you think?

28 Aug 2008, 8:06 am | click here for answers

Open Question: Online Ovulation Calendars..?

Can someone help me calculate my possible ovulation date? The first day of my last period was August 23rd. The calendar says first day of ovulation is Sept. 2nd?? Is this right? I know it's not exact, I thought ovulation started 11 days after your period? Does anyone know of any good websites to help me?

28 Aug 2008, 11:01 am | click here for answers

Open Question: What's wrong with him?

My ex and I broke up about 2 months ago now. We are both currently dating each others' friends and so we look each other every the time at parties. He has told me that he never wants to look or hear from me ever again and I haven't made any contact except to wish him a glad birthday via facebook. I wish to remain friends, but he doesn't want to. Yet he shows up at my work every the time. He literally goes in there every other day. Knowing that me and my current boyfriend (his pal) work there. When we broke up it, it was very sudden. Everything was fine, he even said he wanted to marry me, but then the next day I found him flirting with a girl online and confronted him. He freaked out, said he was going to commit suicide, then broke up with me. I've even talked to his sister,(she and him are very close) and she has no idea why he broke up with me. Since then, we've had very little contact. At parties we don't talk to one another. The other day he sent me an instant message telling me to cease trying to make him jealous at parties. (I swear I'm not. I'm just having fun, drinking and dancing. I'm not attempting to draw attention to myself at every.) But he was really mean about it. Why is he acting so weird and immature? He told me when we broke up that I didn't do anything wrong and it was my fault, so why does he treat me like this? And why can I not receive it off my mind? He and Chris are no longer friends because of this. So, he isn't coming to look him. Chris did the right thing and asked him if it was ok if we started talking, (even though he didn't have to) and he said it was ok. Then told me, Chris went behind his back. Also, I'm 19, but I do know how to be in a commited relationship. My last ex and I were together for 3 years. Lol. I'm not using anyone to make him jealous. That would be wrong on so many levels. You don't have to believe me, but if I was doing that, I'd be lying to myself and hurting the guy I really care about. I honestly really like Chris. But this isn't about him. I'm wondering why my ex is acting odd. That's the issue at hand. Thank you to everyone who has answered.

27 Aug 2008, 3:22 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: Where can you find dates for economic reports?

Is there an online listing of when various economic indicating reports are released (ex. durable good report, consumer confidence report, various housing reports)?

27 Aug 2008, 1:00 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: How do I let go of this? I'm hurting alittle.?

I've been seeing this guy since April of this year. We met online and hit it off from the start. He wanted to take things to the next level and I agreed. Well, today I decided to check his online dating page and some girl left a public note to him thanking him for the best backseat "ride" ever. I'm nice of crushed because I thought we had something. I divorced last year so it's nice of like dang I still can't find the right one. Should I just not answer when he calls and go no contact? For some reason I don't want him to know that I'm nice of crushed. He wanted to receive together this weekend but I want to cancel, I don't know what to say. The girl left the message tonight so I know it's recent. Now I look why he's been asking if we were exclusive because he's not.

27 Aug 2008, 7:51 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: never had a girlfriend before and sick of it! can anyone offer any advice??

i'm currently 22 and never had a girlfriend of any sort before and i'm scared it won't change for ages! :-/ i know i'd be good for a girl and be sweet with her and look after her ive just had no luck at every getting anywhere! girls just don't seem to want me and always go for some other guy :-( ive tried online, work, through friends, speed dating, festivals, clubs outside work, bars and nightclubs but still not found anyone who is right for me! every ive found are girls who blank me and ignore before ive even talked to them, and then they receive off with someone else and i seem to receive nothing! ive had a few dates so far but nothing came of them. having said that, i got dates so i must have done something right then! i'm not a bad looker (ive been told!) and ive got loads of mates but none of them know anyone they can set me up with. ive really tried to improve my confidence and be glad with myself, and this does show alot more now (people think so and i find it easier talking to everyone these days!) but still i seem to receive no where! i met and talked to loads of girls at a festival recently and yet i didn't seem to be doing anything right... more than anything though, i'm scared this will either never happen and i'll miss out, or if it finally does, my lack or sexual and romantic experience will make me useless to her. i look stuff in the media about things that guys my age should know, and u feel like a kid as i don't know them! does anyone know how i could help myself? will i ever meet my special someone? every my mates are finding theirs now! :-(

28 Aug 2008, 12:19 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: Online dating????????

I met this girl on Answers...She supa cute! I like to go to her Q&A and read her answers, every the time. We've never talked, but I don't know... I've never met someone online, before. But i've also never met anyone as chilly as her. What should I do? I don't want her to say her name, I just don't know it it would be weird or anything, me hitting on her, over the internet...I have never liked someone that I didn't receive to look everyday.

28 Aug 2008, 6:18 am | click here for answers

Open Question: Can I lie about my height on an online dating profile?

I don't like my height and don't really want to attract girls who dig taller guys. I'm 6'3" and I wanted to say I was 5'11" or 6' even (probably the latter because I could always claim it was a typo). Can I receive away with it? Please no answers preaching how wrong it is to tell harmless lies...plenty of people do it on an online dating profile, not to mention in a relationship. Do you tell your partner the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth? I figure that I can fudge three or four inches, especially since I'm still likely to be taller than most girls. I want to attract girls who don't want taller guys...I hate my height and don't like being seen this way. I have no reason to embrace being tall or broad shouldered (this doesnt mean I'm in great shape or anything)...I don't look it as attractive and could care less if some guys wish they were taller...nor that some girls want a bigger guy. I don't want to be seen as anyone's protector or teddy bear or what-have-you...the worst (unintentional) thing a girl ever said to me was: "I adore how tiny I look when I'm with you...finally, I receive to be the tiny one."

27 Aug 2008, 1:51 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: So there is this guy....(I know this is long but please help, I can't tell this to my friends)?

OK, guy A, let's call him Dan, guy B we'll call Greg. My pal dated Dan for about a month, and they didn't like each other, but they made out at work thing(i work at a boy scout camp, btw) any way, I had a little crush on this guy, and i was pissed cause she was a bitch when she dumped him(she had him paged at the bowling alley he was at with his friends, and when he came to receive the phone, she dumped him) I thought he'd cease talking to me, and I was upset cause we were good friends. However, I went online that night and he im'd right away and was like, so i guess i'm single, and i was like, i;m sorry, she's a bitch sometimes, and he was like it okay greg was more upset then me. The next year, i went to work there and nothing was special. People treated me normal and I made a lot of friends, even no one like's Dan's ex, and we are still best friends. Now I had a crush on Dan, and every my friends were like do something, even his ex, but i was like no. Now this year, greg has been every over me, and i really really like him. So we go out a lot for dinner and stuff with everyone, and I always ride in Gregs car with Dan and a couple other guys(not to many girls work there....) So the three of us have had this whole awkward flirt thing this year. Well sometimes we were in the car, and he would be like, hey that looks like (insert name of dans ex here). I would receive mad at him and say, thats my best friends, cease. I know he was nice of doing it to flirt with me, but it was always awkward, especially for Dan and me, and know one else knew what to say. Well work is over, but we have been texting none cease. He still teases me, but he apologized for the Dan's ex thing. And I really like him. So given every this awkward history, should i give it a chance? (oh, and we wouldn't look each other that much. We both have school(me high, hes in college, so awkward times) and I have work, I'm not allowed to the city by my self and he lacks the money to train in that often(it expensive around here, but i can go majorly reduced cause my mom works for NJ transit) and the list goes on, When I do look him, how do I greet him? I think a hug and a kiss on the cheek, but I don't know, this would be my first real boyfriend.... Thank you for being honest and taking the time to read this

27 Aug 2008, 11:12 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: How can i report someone who cross the border to canada after being deported from the us back to haiti?

About 2 1/2 years ago this guy killed my niece by coercing her into drugs and was deported back to haiti and somehow he manage to find his way back to the usa but that was short lived cause I.C.E learn of his return and somehow he entered Canada below a untrue name using someone else passport i know a fingerprint was taken but he was still released below a $3000 bond in canada. it sadden me to know that one can commit a crime like murder and flee to a country that's driving distance and live freely while we have to suffer and look at kids that's motherless. please anyone please tell me where i can go to report this. have spoken to his lawyer Jamal Fraygui and of course he say send a letter but arrive on this is someone your representing my letter will go unopened. if there's an online page i can go to view his court date and the judge that day i would like the assitance

27 Aug 2008, 9:42 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: does he care about me?

i met this guy online and we have been voice chatting for over 7 months. Initially, we used to talk until 6 am and he could not spend a single day without talking to me. We met in person and we have had three dates so far. when we meet, everything is super great. However, wheever we are not together, I feel like I am texting and calling him the most. At first. he would answer to my messages right away. But now, It takes him atleast 10 hrs to do so. I know that he has been busy for quite some time but his situation has been the same throughout and there is nothing different. What do u think I should do. Plz help

27 Aug 2008, 2:53 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: May I have a recipe for pinwheel cookies?

I remember making them when I was a kid and they were really good. I can't remember if they were crispy, soft, chewy, or what - What are they like? I looked online for recipes, but I'd rather have a recipe that someone has tried and likes. Also, I want the chocolate and vanilla cookies, not with dates or anything. Thank you.

27 Aug 2008, 8:25 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: dating.. why is it so hard to find someone ????

im a nice clean guy,45, great job, and possess home exc. i dont go to bars, and ive been devoriced for 2 years, im not ugly for any mean, but i have tried the dating thing online and cant seem to receive nothing interested but big women, are just not that good looking, to make me glad. i try to contact some pretty women and al falls, im very honest, and want the same, why is this? i look pretty women up town with some of the uglyest guys you want to look, why?,i go up town and look, and seems every are married are just stick there noise up,and dont talk, i try difficult, agian i no im a nice looking guy, im not conseded at every, what should i do just sit back and receive old.. i would like to meet a pretty women one day, i look women on the dating sites that are very pretty, when i contact then never receive any response... any ladys r guys have this problem. any answers need help,,,,

27 Aug 2008, 2:53 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: am i good enough for him??

met this guy online and we have been voice chatting for over 7 months. When we sratrted chatting he never asked me for any of my pictures and that he did not say a word about his financial status. After around two months of chatting we exchanged our pictures and he said that he liked me. Then, through time, I came to know for fact that he is from a very wealthy family. I really like him so much irrespective of any of the things i mentioned about. The problem is, he is the very first person that I am getting myself into a relatinship (i am actually 24and that I am overweight and that me and my family are from the middle class financially. We have had three dates so far and whenever we meet he makes me feel like I am the only lady in this universe. He calls me often and he makes me giggle like crazy the whole time. The thing that makes me ask this question is that, he never introduced me to his friends and that he did not invite me to his sister's wedding although he has been mentionsing that alot about it. So, do you think that he did not introduce me to his friends cause it is too soon or is it because he is ashemed of me?? Plz help

27 Aug 2008, 6:29 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: Do Christian Churchs ever use the bait-and-switch like online dating sites do?

I always hear "the Jesus is in the Mail" no pun intended

28 Aug 2008, 9:00 am | click here for answers

Open Question: Why is my ex avoiding me?

27 Aug 2008, 2:26 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: Getting married without a license?

I'm a North Carolinian resident and plan on getting married, but because of financial problems, my fiancee and I can't afford to be defined by law as being married, and because we'll lose our reception site deposit if we change the date. We were hoping to go through the ceremony and reception like we normally would have and then go to a court to receive the license a year later. Typically, people do it the other way by eloping and then celebrating and such, in which case they're already married by law -- I've been searching online a lot to try to find something for what we want to do, and I didn't think a "common law" marriage was what I wanted. Is there anything that works for what I want and is there a name for it??? Please help me!!! I should note that the "money problems" include insurance and other things. We can afford the license. And our reception site WILL NOT refund us any of our deposit, even if we sign something saying we 100% agree to have the reception at the same place, just a later date.

27 Aug 2008, 6:19 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: What would you do? I am not understanding my due date please read details? Don't answer if you don't know?

I was on birth control, I also took antibiotic, I then went of the pill mid pack. I had a regular period that was right on time it started 03/04/08. I started bleeding again 04/26/08 from going off the pill. On April 30 I took a HPT and got a positive. A few weeks later I went for my first prenantal visit. Now after measuring the baby I was first told my due date was dec.31, then it was changed to Jan 15.... but every time I use an online due date calculator ( and use March 4 as the first day of my last regular period and I have a 28 cycle I receive a due date of Dec 9) I am going to ask my midwife about it next week at my next visit) I just am concerned about going into labor and the dr. trying to cease it and me ending up with a big over due baby and having to have a C-section. At my first prenatal visit the midwife said my uterus was 8 wks then after exam they did ultra sound and changed the due date. Also this is my second child first one is nearly 4 Boo - No this is NOT my first baby.

28 Aug 2008, 10:59 am | click here for answers

Open Question: whats the fax number for Harley Davidson?

I need to change my billing date and I need to know the fax number for Harley Davidson. Thanks alot. I have yet to find it online...

27 Aug 2008, 4:52 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: Do you believe in love online?

People don't usually meet in real life (well that i know of) because of the fear of being raped or killed or something but my uncle got married because of on-line dating. What do you think?

27 Aug 2008, 1:32 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: What online dating service would I tend to get more attractive looking men with good jobs?

I don't mind paying for the service. I want a site where'll I meet someone with class and not some ex-con!

28 Aug 2008, 12:07 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: Do you think that he likes me and that he is poud of me?

i met this guy online and we have been voice chatting for over 7 months. When we sratrted chatting he never asked me for any of my pictures and that he did not say a word about his financial status. After around two months of chatting we exchanged our pictures and he said that he liked me. Then, through time, I came to know for fact that he is from a very wealthy family. I really like him so much irrespective of any of the things i mentioned about. The problem is, he is the very first person that I am getting myself into a relatinship (i am actually 24and that I am overweight and that me and my family are from the middle class financially. We have had three dates so far and whenever we meet he makes me feel like I am the only lady in this universe. He calls me often and he makes me giggle like crazy the whole time. The thing that makes me ask this question is that, he never introduced me to his friends and that he did not invite me to his sister's wedding although he has been mentionsing that alot about it. So, do you think that he did not introduce me to his friends cause it is too soon or is it because he is ashemed of me?? Plz help

27 Aug 2008, 5:21 pm | click here for answers

Resolved Question: Why do people lie on dating services about their appearance and submit a truth revealing picture?

My pal and I have both been dateless for a few weeks now and decided to try one of the more popular online services we had seen on TV, Match. Jacob (my best pal) decided to go first. Signing up was easy enough and the profile took only a few moments. While building his profile, Jacob was asked his "body type". An active weight lifter and jogger, he marked "Athletic and toned", a honest choice. It was now time to do a search. Jacob preformed an "advanced search" and at the section for body type he selected 'slender', 'athletic and toned', and 'about average'. We soon found that there were well over five hundred women within 100 miles of our city fitting his criteria, so we decided to narrow the search and try each body type individually (every the other options had to stay: smoking habits, relationship status, etc). We searched for only slender women and got twelve matches. Such a low number compared to over five hundred. We tried athletic and toned, but only found 42 matches. So, if you're doing the math with me so far, there are supposedly 450-500 women with an average build in our area. Of the pages we went through on 'about average', only one or two per page were LESS than "heavyset", another of the options given on the profile questioner. Why not just put heavyset? If you want a man that appreciates you for who you are and there is a guy out there looking for a heavyset gal, you'll not show up. Guys not looking for a heavyset gal are going to feel deceived and not pay attention to your profile at every. So, why lie in the first place? On top of every that, why would you lie and post a picture contradicting your possess description? Options for body type were in this order: Slender Athletic and toned About Average A few extra pounds (a better possible answer for some) Stocky (yet another possibility) Heavyset Curvy Big and beautiful Full-figured I urge you to take a look for yourself before you judge my experience on Match. You may just think I'm a jerk, but take a look for yourself.

28 Aug 2008, 2:02 am | click here for answers

Open Question: Is it okay to flake on a girl or is it really mean?

I committed to this girl i met online using a dating site. I have this nagging feeling im going to receive in trouble somehow and ruin everything i have. Her myspace says she is 21 and we have talked about things like her college exp etc but she never actually said her age. She asked if we were goin out for sure tonight because she said she was going to receive her hair done. is it to tardy to back out cuz i feel really nervous.

27 Aug 2008, 5:56 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: Do JC Penney portrait photos ever come in early?

I received my photos online, sent to my email, last night. So I thought maybe they'd be in sooner than Sept 3, which is the date they gave me.

28 Aug 2008, 10:28 am | click here for answers

Open Question: How Fast is Too Fast for a Relationship?

So me and my ex fiance broke up officially about a week and a half ago for the last time. I say last because we were in a constant break up/receive back together every couple of days routine. By the time we ended things for good, I was completely over him and trying to move on, but it was like he wouldn't let me...thus why I kept feeling compelled to receive back together. Ok, that being said, I met this guy online about two or so weeks ago. I thought he was sweet, fun, cute, and just awesome in general. The only problem is he lives in Georgia and I live in Tennessee, so it's about an hour and a half steer for me to look him or vice versa. Well, we ended up meeting where I live for our first date and we pretty much hit it off. We talked for 8 hours straight just walking around and hanging out, enjoying each other's company. When our second date came around three days later (we talked/texted on the phone every day), we ended up cuddling and sharing our first kiss. He asked me to be his girlfriend, and I couldn't deny him...we just clicked. But are we moving too quick? We like each other alot...but I also feel like it's so soon. What do you every think?

28 Aug 2008, 8:09 am | click here for answers

Open Question: What's a good online dating site? And are there sites to meet new friends (guys and girls) as well?

I'm 35 and I've always thought that meeting people online was kinda weird but it seems pretty normal now. I'm single with no kids and I'd like to meet new people for friends and maybe more. It doesn't have to be a "free" site!

28 Aug 2008, 11:41 am | click here for answers

Open Question: Where can I find mayhem fest shirts?

I didn't have enough money the day of the festival and I can't find them anywhere online. Anyone know where I can? I don't want a band shirt, I want a shirt with the logo on front and the tour dates on back.

27 Aug 2008, 7:35 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: How can I get asked out on more dates? Im 29 and I am an attractive woman-?

I'm just not comfortable with the online dating scene, nor am I comfortable at the bar or club scene. I don't believe in forcing anything to happen and I'm definitely believe the guy should pursue the girl. Right now my work takes up a lot of time and leaves me with not much energy to do much else. I am making job change to free up more personal time. Any suggestions of how I can attract educated, christian men just being myself?

27 Aug 2008, 10:38 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: So, any advice on what I should do?

I just need some suggestions on what I should do here. It's a long story, but here's the info: The players: Me: Moi! Dan: ex-boyfriend Emily: My pal, Alex's girlfriend, pal of Juliana, Ross and Sean Alex: Emily's boyfriend, roommate with Sean and Ross, Juliana's brother Sean: Roomate with Ross and Alex, Juliana's and Emily's pal Ross: We breifly dated, pal of Juliana and Emily, Room-mates with Alex and Sean The Background: Ross and Dan were vying for my attention before I began dating either of them. I began dating Dan first, during which time he learned that Alex's sister (who I have never met) lived across the road from him... He met Ross briefly one night when I was hanging out with Ross and Dan came to pick me up. I later broke up with Dan and began dating Ross for a short period of time. I recently broke up with Ross. Recent Events: Juliana has a blog that she posts on. Alex, Emily, Ross and Sean are every in her top 4 friends, and also comment on it frequently. She has a few fans, mostly friends of friends who also like the blog. Recently she had a birthday, which she posted online, inviting everyone to it. At the birthday itself, Dan showed up, calling himself David and introducing himself as a fan of her blog. He told no one at the party that he knew me, or recognised them, except for Sean to whom he just said knew me, not that he dated me. Dan's Version of that night: He just ran into Emily, and she invited them out with him. He thought she recognised him, but no one else did. He told Sean that he and I dated; and both him and they had an amazing time that night. Emily's Version: Some creepy dude showed up at the birthday party, who no one knew. He spent the whole night talking with Sean and just weirded everyone out. After asking Emily about what happened, I called him to ask how he got onto Juliana's blog. He got really defensive and said that he ran into it through a pal. He also said they've been myspacing for a while, and that he considers her to be a pal and would like it if we didn't ruin the friendship but talking to her about this. I later looked at Juliana's page and the only message he left her was the one saying he would be at her party. Other than that, nothing. Today's Events: Emily texted me to let me know her boyfriend, Alex, got really freaked out by him just going to the party so messaged her sister about it. Apparently she got a weird vibe from Dan when he started talking to her about me. Not about our relationship, but just asking about me (she and I have never met). Also, apparently he told either her or Sean (I can't remember which) that I have a restraining order out againt him. Which I don't. So, any suggestions? It's a lot of drama. Right now I'm just trying to ignore everything that's going on, but I don't know if that's the best thing to do. I dont' like the idea that he's seemingly stalking my friends. This could every be a coincidence, but it doesn't sound like it.

27 Aug 2008, 3:29 pm | click here for answers

Open Question: this isnt a question but i need some advice help guys girls can help too please?

so im dating this guy well im supposed to be dating him so ok well we never talk much he gets online but doesnt send me a message i only receive a message if were on at the same time witch is like never because hes only on at night and im sleeping ok so the other day i sent him a message saying hey hansome hows it going what you been up to and he replys hey hun nothing just getting steph ready to go back to school ok so i understand that hes been busy with her but he gets online and never sends me a hello what are your oppions

28 Aug 2008, 10:02 am | click here for answers

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